You’re In Good Company

FOR MODERN
TIMES

MINDFUL
CONNECTIONS

Rachel Joy Barehl

Dating doula, superconnector, photographer, and anthropologist of modern dating — known locally as the Columbus Matchmaker.

Most people say they want a relationship.
Very few are living in a way that actually creates one.

I offer support to close the gap.

Through clarity work, photography, curated gatherings, structured experimentation, and intentional introductions, I help relationship-minded adults expand their relational range and start showing up in alignment with the partnership they say they want.

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It starts with getting to know you deeply — your values, communication style, daily rhythms, relational history, what makes you belly laugh, which chores you secretly love and which ones you’d gladly trade, and the patterns that shape how you give and receive love.

Every person’s vision of a good life looks a little different. What stays constant is our commitment to knowing you well, caring deeply, and thoughtfully supporting you as you take brave, intentional steps toward the partnership you desire.

In just one hour, Rachel connected with me in a way I didn’t know was possible. As a young introverted man with limited dating experience, she helped me see the value of support, confidence, and even the power of affirmations. I don’t often seek help, but I don’t recall a moment in my life where I felt so moved by someone I barely knew.

—Nate
The quality of dates was better than any I’d gone on before working with Rachel — and that’s because of her matchmaking skills and her ability to vet people much better than a short online profile. Every single date left me more energized.

—Dan
Not only was connection possible but it was prioritized. You show up to the space knowing that it was been ordained with best case outcomes.

-Q
Talking about my personal life, and what I wanted it to be (and not be), felt easy and natural. Rachel was encouraging yet realistic—no upsell, no hype—just genuine enthusiasm and fresh thinking.

-Mike
Dating Differently and working with Rachel shifted my entire perspective on dating. The process challenged me in a good way, helped me reconnect with myself, and showed me that love is truly possible for me. I’m now dating someone exclusively and approaching relationships with more clarity, confidence, and intention. I’m so grateful for the door Rachel helped open in my life.

— Dating Differently Client

In Good Company is a home base for daters.
A soft place to land for the big-hearted and curious.
A playground for your brave, tender inner child.
A pit crew for those putting real effort into love.

Here, we practice connection differently.
And above all, we lead with kindness — especially when modern dating forgets how.

You’re In Good Company

Rachel Joy Barehl

Join The Rolodex

CREATE YOUR COMPLIMENTARY DATING PROFILE

The quality of dates was better than any I’d gone on before working with Rachel — and that’s because of her matchmaking skills and her ability to vet people much better than a short online profile. Every single date left me more energized.

Not only was connection possible but it was prioritized. You show up to the space knowing that it was been ordained with best case outcomes.

Talking about my personal life, and what I wanted it to be (and not be), felt easy and natural. Rachel was encouraging yet realistic—no upsell, no hype—just genuine enthusiasm and fresh thinking.