MATCHMAKING

A doorway into love that

feels like home

You are not here by accident.

You’re here because part of you is tired of repeating the same story, and another part of you believes that something different — something real — is possible.

This isn’t speed dating.
This isn’t an app.
This isn’t performing your way into love.

This is about becoming someone who can give and receive a relationship that feels like home.

Most people arrive here feeling a mix of hope and exhaustion.

They’ve:

  • Tried the apps

  • Dated the “wrong ones”

  • Over-gave, shut down, or disappeared

  • Wondered “Is it just me?”

What we do together is different.

After this work, people feel:

  • Clear about who and what they want

  • More regulated in their bodies

  • Able to choose differently

  • Capable of receiving real, reciprocal love

  • Rooted in self-worth instead of scarcity

This isn’t only about finding your person,
It’s also about becoming someone who can sustain healthy love.

Choose your doorway

There is no “right” entry point.
Only the one that feels true for where you are right now.

  • A playful, honest mirror

    This is your low-pressure entry point into this world.

    Through a fill-in-the-blank reflection, you’ll uncover:

    • Repeating patterns in love

    • The roles you tend to play

    • What you’re actually craving (beneath the surface list)

    • The story you’re ready to release

    • The love you are finally prepared for

    After you submit, you’ll receive:

    • A short reflection from me

    • 1–2 insights about your patterns

    • A suggestion for your next aligned step

    This is not a quiz.
    It’s a mirror.

    Best for:
    First-timers • The curious • The tender-hearted • The brave

  • Private 1:1 Sessions (Zoom)

    Dating Advising is where we work on whatever is most alive for you in love and connection:

    • Clarifying what you actually want (not what you’ve been taught to want)

    • Identifying patterns + blind spots

    • Untangling confusion and mixed signals

    • Rewriting your approach to dating

    • Creating a real plan instead of spinning

    You bring your feelings, questions, and honesty.
    I bring structure, clarity, pattern recognition, and direction.

    This isn’t about “trying harder.”
    It’s about becoming more aligned.

    WHO IT’S FOR:
    People who are done repeating the same story.

  • Connection • Belonging • Practice

    This is a low-pressure, high-connection home base.

    Inside this space you’ll find:

    • Monthly gatherings (online + in-person)

    • Conversation prompts & rituals

    • Small-group threads

    • Priority access to events + pop-ups

    This is not therapy.
    This is not social media.
    This is relational practice in real time.

    It’s where you stretch, soften, and remember how to belong.

    WHO IT’S FOR:
    People who want connection to feel natural again.

  • Application-Only • High-Touch Support

    This is a discerning, intimate process for people prepared for deep partnership.

    Includes:

    • Private application + clarity call

    • Curated matches from my private network

    • Pre / post-date coaching + integration

    • Advocacy + discernment on your behalf

    • Ongoing pattern awareness + support

    This is not about speed.
    It’s about depth, timing, and truth.

    I am not here to “find you someone.”
    I am here to walk beside you while you become someone who can receive and sustain real love.

    WHO IT’S FOR:
    People who are ready to meet — and be met — fully.

This is more than matchmaking.
It’s a process of becoming.

This work is twofold:

Curated connection
Relational coaching + pattern awareness

Every introduction is an invitation to grow in clarity, self-trust, and alignment with what you truly want. We are not rushing toward a partner — we are becoming the kind of person who can sustain healthy love.

Together, we explore:

  • Your relational patterns

  • Preference vs conditioning

  • Where you over-give or hold back

  • Where your heart opens or closes

  • The gap between who you say you want and who you choose

This is about creating a life that feels like home — with or without a partner.

How the Process Works:

This is the opposite of chaotic app dating.

Behind the scenes, I am:

  • Cultivating a community of emotionally aware, relationship-ready people

  • Curating potential connections through my private network and referrals

  • Advocating for you with care and integrity

  • Watching for patterns in attraction and alignment

Much of this work is unseen. That’s where the real discernment lives.

My role is to protect your energy and widen your possibilities.

Feeling curious? Let’s talk

No pressure. Just a conversation and a possibility.

Introductions are based on:

  • Who you are

  • What you desire

  • Who is available and aligned

  • Mutual readiness

I cannot promise timing or outcome.

I can promise:

  • Devotion to your process

  • Honest reflection

  • Intentional discernment

  • Depth over speed

You are not a number.
You are a story unfolding.

Guiding Principles:
Be kind
Be honest
Stay curious
Don’t rush what is sacred
Choose truth over fantasy

You are worthy of

love that

feels like home.

What folks have said about Rachel + Adam

  • Philip Mendola

    For as long as I have known her, Rachel has been a connector in every sense of the word. Her sense for feeling a person—their heart, their energy, their unique qualities—is like no one else’s I have met. With both tact and enthusiasm, she is able to see people, relationships, and potential connection with a keen eye. My own shyness has benefited from Rachel’s big heart and can-do spirit, the exact kind of energy that keeps the world going. My confidence in her is rooted in a long personal history where I have seen her whip people, parties, and plans together in just the place where the potential was ripe. I’m deeply grateful to Rachel for the opportunities she’s given to me, and I’m hopeful that others will feel the exact same blessing of her effort, eye, and energy.

  • Sarah Storer

    Sarah Storer

    I just keep walking away from these exercises with "I have power. I have control." which is so the opposite of my childhood and upbringing and young dating life and it's making me cry again. I'm still totally 100% great if a partner never happens for me but I haven't been even remotely hopeful or even curious about dating for a long time and I am now and that is kind of lovely.

  • Nate Romero

    In just one hour, Rachel connected with me in a way I didn’t know was possible. As a young introverted man with limited dating experience, she helped me see the value of support, confidence, and even the power of affirmations. I don’t often seek help, but I don’t recall a moment in my life where I felt so moved by someone I barely knew.

  • Quanita McRoberts

    Adam's presence is so welcoming and warm. Being in his presence made me feel safe and healed. I don't know how to describe the experience other than spiritual, and that you need to experience it for yourself. 

  • Dan Merritt

    The quality of dates was better than any I’d gone on before working with Rachel — and that’s because of her matchmaking skills and her ability to vet people much better than a short online profile. Every single date left me more energized.

DAN MERRITT

“The quality of dates was better than any I’d gone on before working with Rachel — and that’s because of her matchmaking skills and her ability to vet people much better than a short online profile. Every single date left me more energized.”

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