we’d be honored to be your

partners in finding your partner.

If you’re exhausted by a culture that turns dating into a performance, we get it. Too many options. Not enough connection. Too much effort. Not enough reciprocity. Too much noise. Not enough truth.

You want something deeper — actual partnership, someone with a shared vision of a good life who wants to keep growing next to you.

How We Show Up for Our Private Clients

We listen deeply. Your stories, hopes, contradictions, and quiet truths are all welcome here.

We move at your pace. No rush, no force. Love unfolds best when your nervous system feels safe.

We curate with care. Every introduction is intentional, human-vetted, and aligned with the life and partnership you’re building.

We hold the whole of you. The playful parts, the guarded parts, the tender edges—your fullness belongs in the room.

We tell the truth with kindness. Clear feedback, honest reflection, and guidance you can trust.

We stay in it with you. From intake through post-date debriefs and decision points, you’re supported every step of the way.

We honor your inherent worth. You don’t have to perform, impress, or earn love. Wholeness is already enough.

We prioritize real life. Shared meals, unhurried conversations, time together—connection deepens when we’re human, in person.

We build something bigger than dates. Community, belonging, and spaces where relationships can grow naturally.


01

Curiosity

We slow down and get to know you—the person behind the profile. In our first one-on-one conversation, we listen for more than just your checklist. We want to understand your values, your lifestyle, and what partnership really means to you. That becomes the foundation for a custom search.

02

Reflection

We draw on years of intuition, reciprocal relationships and networks built with care, and a deep belief that love is equal parts science, art, and jazz. Each introduction is hand-selected so you can simply show up and see if a connection is there. After each date, we get feedback. This helps us fine-tune your next introduction.

03

Keep Going

Your search for love doesn’t have to be a grind—it can be intentional, spacious, and designed around you. My job is to carry the logistics and hold the hope. Your job? To stay open, be good to everyone you meet along the way and let yourself be surprised by what’s possible.

DAN MERRITT

“The quality of dates was better than any I’d gone on before working with Rachel — and that’s because of her matchmaking skills and her ability to vet people much better than a short online profile. Every single date left me more energized.”

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We help you collapse the confusion, reclaim your energy, and get clear on what aligned love looks like for you.

 Not the version you were taught to want — the version you’re designed for.

Our work blends pattern recognition, presence, community, and curated connection to help you finally move from:

  • reacting → to choosing

  • performing → to belonging

  • searching → to being met

Our Process

  • We begin with an introductory call to understand the full picture of you — your personality, lifestyle, dating and family history, and both personal and professional goals. This is about context, not boxes.

  • Qualified candidates are invited to a private, one-hour video conversation with the Founder and Certified Matchmaker. This is a deeper dive into how you love, how you partner, and what genuinely matters to you.

  • After background checks and a final review, approved candidates are formally invited to become clients.

  • When there’s a potential match, we connect by phone to talk through the opportunity together — values, timing, attraction, and alignment — before any introduction is made.

  • Once both people opt in, we handle all logistics for the first date. These are intentionally light and low-pressure — often lunch, coffee, or happy hour. We confirm details clearly and send reminders so everyone can arrive relaxed and present. Virtual introductions are also available when appropriate.

  • After the date, we personally check in with both parties to gather honest feedback and process the experience.

  • If there’s mutual interest, we coordinate the second date — usually a longer experience like dinner or an activity. This stage includes one final feedback conversation before the two of you take it from there and schedule future dates independently.

Love is the ultimate collaboration. And you don’t have to navigate it alone.

We want to protect your energy & widen your possibilities.

we believe that we are all wired for connection

& meant for love that feels like home.

What folks have said about Rachel + Adam