A Few Truths About How We Work
We don’t believe in upselling, urgency, or pressure. We trust that people who value depth, care, and integrity can feel when something is aligned.
This is collaborative, consent-based work. You bring your lived experience and instincts; we bring perspective, discernment, and care. We move together — thoughtfully, honestly, at a human pace.
There are no shortcuts here. This isn’t therapy or a numbers game. It’s real-world relational work, rooted in curiosity, reflection, and lived connection.
We are a limited resource. We work with a small number of private clients at a time so we can offer the depth, presence, and care this work deserves.
If this way of working resonates, there are gentle ways to move closer — joining the rolodex, the waitlist, or stepping into conversation when the timing is right.
Quality over quantity. Always.
Commitments & Agreements
A shared container for trust, clarity, and conscious connection
These commitments outline what you can expect from me as your matchmaker — and what I ask of you as a participant in this relational ecosystem. They exist to protect your heart, honor the process, and help create a dating culture where people feel safe, seen, and respected.
My Commitments to You
1. Radical Respect for Your Privacy & Dignity
Matchmaking is not fully anonymous by nature, yet your information is treated with deep care. I only share your profile with people directly involved in potential matches — clients, vetted connectors, or trusted matchmakers — and never without intention.
2. An Inclusive, Humanity-Forward Approach
All ethical expressions of dating are welcome here. Your identity, preferences, boundaries, and lived experiences are honored. If I don’t have aligned matches within my own pool, I will do my best to connect you with a trusted matchmaker who may.
3. An Unshakable Belief in Your Worth
You are whole. You are lovable. You are not behind. Your value does not rise or fall based on dating outcomes. I hold you as inherently worthy throughout this entire process.
4. Care, Hope, and Attentiveness
When you are part of this ecosystem, you are held — not forgotten. I remain engaged, thoughtful, and optimistic on your behalf. Every introduction is treated with care, presence, and reverence.
Your Commitments to the Process
1. Consent Comes First — Always
Consent to be matched. Consent on dates. Consent in relationships. You agree to honor your own yes, no, and maybe — and to respect the other person’s boundaries as well. If consent feels unfamiliar or challenging, support is available.
2. Kindness & Compassion in All Interactions
You may decline a date or discontinue connection at any time. When you do, you commit to clarity, honesty, and care — including offering feedback respectfully when asked.
3. Willingness to Examine Patterns & Biases
Preferences are human. Unexamined biases can be harmful. You agree to stay curious about how conditioning, power, and lived experience shape your dating lens — and to engage this work in good faith.
4. Integrity, Alignment & Self-Trust
You are the expert on you. You set the pace and follow your internal green and red lights. If at any point these commitments no longer feel aligned, that’s not a failure — it’s information. We can pause, repair, or shift as needed. Repeated misalignment may mean stepping out of the ecosystem to protect its integrity.