A few truths about how I work.

I don’t believe in upselling, urgency, or pressure. I trust that people who value depth, care, and integrity can feel when something is aligned.

Matchmaking and coaching are premium services. While I sometimes create one-off events or invitations for people in my wider rolodex, most of my work happens inside a private, highly intentional container. That level of care is reflected in the pricing.

This work is collaborative and consent-based. You bring your lived experience, instincts, and desires; I bring perspective, discernment, and care. We move together—thoughtfully, honestly, at a human pace.

There are no shortcuts here—and no discounts woven into a small, values-driven practice. This work involves real people, real timing, and real emotional stakes, and it’s priced accordingly.

This isn’t therapy or a numbers game. It’s relational, real-world work rooted in curiosity, reflection, and lived connection.

If something feels off, we talk about it. Repair, honest feedback, and clear reflection are part of the process here. Presence matters more than polish. Humanity comes before performance.

I do this because I love it. It’s an honor to be invited into people’s lives during moments of transition, healing, and hope. I don’t take that lightly.

I’m not interested in building something forgettable, transactional, or driven by scarcity. I’m interested in resonance, integrity, and work that genuinely changes lives.

I’m also a limited resource. I work with a maximum of ten private clients at a time so I can offer the depth, presence, and care this work deserves. My time and energy go first to those clients.

If this way of working resonates, there are gentle ways to move closer—joining the rolodex, the waitlist, or stepping into a conversation when the timing is right.

Quality over quantity. Always.

Commitments & Agreements
A shared container for trust, clarity, and conscious connection

These commitments outline what you can expect from me as your matchmaker, and what I ask of you as a participant in this relational ecosystem. They exist to protect your heart, honor the process, and help create a dating culture where people feel safe, seen, and respected.

My Commitments to You

1. Radical Respect for Your Privacy & Dignity

Matchmaking is not a fully confidential process by nature, yet I treat your information with deep care.
I only share your profile with people directly involved in potential matches — clients, vetted connectors, or trusted matchmakers.
If we encounter one another in a public or community setting, I will never assume familiarity. You always get to lead if and how you wish to acknowledge our connection.

2. An Inclusive, Ethical, Humanity-Forward Approach

All ethical expressions of dating are welcome here. If I don’t have matches for you within my own pool, I will do my best to introduce you to a trusted matchmaker who may. Your identity, preferences, boundaries, and lived experiences are honored.

3. Ongoing Growth, Accountability, and Anti-Oppressive Practice

I am actively engaged in learning and unlearning. I continually refine my process to make it more consent-based, fair, compassionate, and anti-oppressive. If I ever fall out of alignment with these commitments, I will pause my work, repair where needed, and recalibrate before proceeding.

4. Unshakable Belief in Your Worth

You are whole. You are lovable. You are not “behind.”
Your value does not rise or fall based on outcomes in dating.
I hold you as inherently worthy throughout this entire journey.

5. Hope That Doesn’t Expire

When you are my client, you are held — not forgotten.
I remain engaged, attentive, and optimistic on your behalf.
I believe deeply that aligned love can happen in a moment, and every introduction is treated with that level of care and reverence.

Your Commitments to the Process

1. Consent Comes First — Always

Consent to be matched.
Consent on dates.
Consent in relationships.
You agree to honor your own yes, no, and maybe — and to respect the other person’s as well.
If consent or boundaries feel unfamiliar, I am here to support your learning.

2. Kindness & Compassion in All Interactions

Even when a match isn’t a fit, you commit to offering feedback with care.
You may decline a date or discontinue connection at any point — simply do so clearly and respectfully.

3. A Willingness to Examine Patterns & Biases

Preferences are human. Unquestioned biases are harmful.
You agree to stay curious about how power, privilege, and systems of oppression may shape your dating lens.

4. No Ghosting — Unless Safety Requires It

If you change your mind about a date, before or after, you commit to communicating that.
If you ever feel unsafe, ghosting or blocking is appropriate.
If helpful, I can support you in crafting a message that is kind, clear, and direct.

5. Trust Yourself — You’re the Expert on You

Follow your internal green lights and red lights.
You decide the pace.
I will follow your lead and support your instincts.

6. Respect for My Time & Capacity

I am a limited resource. I intentionally work with a maximum of 10 private clients at a time.
While I do my best to stay responsive, I cannot reply to every inquiry unless you are an active private client within my inner orbit.

7. Alignment Matters

If you find yourself unable to uphold these commitments, that is not a moral failing — it may simply be a signal to pause and grow.
I am open to conversation and repair.
If commitments are repeatedly not upheld, I may remove you from the list to protect the integrity of the ecosystem.

Eligibility & Boundaries

  • Participants must be 21 years of age or older.

  • These commitments function as the terms & conditions for participation in my matchmaking community.

  • Harmful, oppressive, or unsafe behavior is not tolerated.

Together, we’re building a dating culture rooted in courage, clarity, compassion, and real connection.