Find the One Who Feels Like Home
I’m Rachel Joy Barehl (she/her) — a matchmaker, photographer, and community architect whose work lives at the intersection of intimacy, storytelling, and belonging. As the founder of In Good Company, I’m redefining what modern connection looks like — creating intentional, human-centered alternatives to the chaos of dating apps and algorithmic introductions.
I’m here to interrupt the story that love is something you have to earn, hustle for, or figure out alone. Love deserves more care than chance — and more curiosity than strategy.
For over a decade, I practiced photography with intention: documenting thresholds of love, the evolution of families, and the fleeting, holy moments of ordinary life. When the world slowed during the pandemic, I began gathering women healing from divorce and re-entering the dating world. That circle of brave, curious hearts became the seed of a much larger movement — one that invites people to practice relational skills, build trust, and experience dating differently.
My approach blends psychology, hospitality, and intuition — part science, part soul. I help clients clarify what they’re truly seeking and cultivate the conditions for lasting partnership. Each introduction is crafted with care, designed for resonance rather than volume, and guided by the belief that compatibility begins with self-awareness and courage.
Over time, I’ve developed a deep passion for working with men — helping them navigate vulnerability, confidence, and connection in ways that feel both grounded and alive.
While I didn’t grow up surrounded by models of healthy love, I’ve spent the last eleven years creating one — in partnership with my husband, Adam. Our marriage has been my most profound classroom: a living study in communication, trust, and repair. From that foundation grew a body of work devoted to helping others cultivate the same — through private matchmaking and LoveClub, a community and workshop series for sharing stories, exploring desire, and practicing relational skills, in good company.
Clients describe me as a steady, intuitive presence — someone who listens deeply, sharpens focus, and helps them feel safe, seen, and magnetic. Whether I’m coaching a client, co-hosting a dinner party, or capturing a love story through my lens, my aim remains the same: to help people slow down and truly see each other.
None of this happens in a vacuum. My greatest collaborator is my partner in life and love, Adam. Together we’ve built a rhythm of shared work, creative play, and a vision for spaces that invite tenderness, courage, and joy.
Because I believe we all deserve to feel at home in love — not after we’ve done enough work, but right now.
Belonging is possible. Partnership is possible. Joy is possible.
Healthy relationships are generational wealth — the kind of abundance that ripples through families, friendships, and communities.
And if you’re ready to invest in that kind of love, know this: asking for help isn’t weak — it’s wise, courageous, and deeply cool.
How folks describe Rachel and Adam
“Rachel has a really unique skill set—creativity, meaningful connections with lots of interesting people, and a warmth and openness that is conducive to creating safe, fun, inclusive environments.”
“Adam's presence is so welcoming and warm. Being in his presence made me feel safe and healed. I don't know how to describe the experience other than spiritual, and that you need to experience it for yourself. ”
“I was so lucky to find Rachel and have her in my corner as I took my first steps on my relationship journey. I wasn't surprised that Rachel had really great advice, both for how to approach dating and for how to think about myself in positive ways. Rachel made me excited to put myself out there.”
“May we always act in humility and kindness towards one another as equals, treasuring each other’s individuality. We will appreciate that we have found in each other a balancing force. May our hands applaud and embrace each other; may our lips speak with clear and direct expression; and may our eyes see the good within each other. We promise to share our hopes and dreams. We pledge dedication to thoughtful communication. We will nourish each other’s needs and emotions, even as they change, and create a fertile environment to cultivate our personal growth. We promise to build a warm and loving home, filled with trust, generosity, gezelligheid, and respect for all people; a place where passion meets compassion; welcoming to our family, friends, and those we have yet to meet. We commit to a lifetime of learning, discussion, and adventure. We will continue to laugh and find humor even in the throes of weighty conversation and difficult moments. We will prioritize rest and dedicate time for sabbath and seeking truth. Let us always remember that life is an adventure, not always predictable. We promise never to give up. We promise to fight for our love, with even more than our own human strength. Through each other’s eyes we see the world anew, may we always be better together.” (our vows, shared publicly september 2014)