THE CONSTELLATION OF CARE

Here, love is not a product — it’s a practice.
We gather to remember what’s possible when connection is slow, generous, and real.

We honor clunky beginnings, gentle attempts, and friendships that bloom on their own timelines.
This is a place to practice care — with ourselves, with each other, with the world.

Modern life often teaches us to treat people like checkboxes, profiles, or transactions.

But here, we choose a different rhythm.

We move with kindness. We show up with curiosity.

We practice friendship, kinship, and partnership as living skills — learning together, imperfectly and beautifully.

Remember when meeting someone new just happened?

A friend of a friend.
A classmate.
A party.
A glance across the room.
Where something could unfold without pressure or expectation.

Now, connection often feels like a job — swiping, guessing, hoping.

This space is different.

This is for people who want to step into a room where everyone is open — not just to romance, but to friendship, kindness, and community.

Here, we are matchmakers for each other’s lives — introducing friends, supporting growth, weaving connections.
Here, knowing someone doesn’t feel like a high-stakes interview, but a slow unfurling of who you are.
Here, we treat each other with care, spark or no spark.

And you — you hold power here.
You shape every circle you walk into.
You set the tone.
You help us all remember what it feels like to belong.

Potlucks

Game Nights

Book Clubs

Parties

Potlucks • Game Nights • Book Clubs • Parties •

Let’s make the world kind again

This is an invitation to say yes.

To co-create spaces that uplift singles, nurture friendships, and support partnered people in loving better.

To belong to a constellation of care — where every star matters, and together, we shine brighter.

The Belonging

$89/month

Monthly Gatherings – potlucks, walks, and online circles that feel like home

Member-Only Platform – stay connected, share stories, spark friendships

Workshops & Teachings – gentle guidance on love, friendship, and community care

Special Celebrations – holiday gatherings, seasonal rituals, surprise events

Collective Matchmaking – meet friends of friends, weave connections for others too

Founding Member Perks – be part of shaping the culture from the ground up

A Place to Belong – practice showing up as your whole self, no performance required

FOUNDER

  • “Don't be afraid to take a risk and a chance meeting new people and trying a new approach! Dating or not, you'll make deeper connections with a trust fall than you will on Tinder or the typical single's meet!”

  • "I wasn't necessarily expecting a romantic connection but I was hoping for human connection and that is exactly what we got. It was so nice to be in an intimate setting that was safe, loving, and curious.”

  • "In a world that feels so fast paced, it was a space to rest in each other’s company and feel grounded in the connected experience of dating."

  • "It was magical. The energy was perfect, everyone there was lovely and kind, I felt folks were able to be their full selves, whatever that means."

Prefer a more personal, discreet, or curated experience?

Discover personalized matchmaking designed with you in mind, rooted in care and connection.

Rachel Joy Barehl— part camp counselor, part coach, part love warrior— is highly connected and ready to help.