we’d be honored to be your
partners in finding your partner.
If you’re exhausted by a culture that turns dating into a performance, we get it. Too many options. Not enough connection. Too much effort. Not enough reciprocity. Too much noise. Not enough truth.
You want something deeper — actual partnership, someone with a shared vision of a good life who wants to keep growing next to you.
We help you collapse the confusion, reclaim your energy, and get clear on what aligned love looks like for you.
Not the version you were taught to want — the version you’re designed for.
Our work blends pattern recognition, presence, community, and curated connection to help you finally move from:
reacting → to choosing
performing → to belonging
searching → to being met
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Join the Rolodex
Add yourself to my private Rolodex of intentional daters. Profiles are reviewed thoughtfully and kept in mind for aligned introductions with active clients or trusted collaborators. There’s no guarantee of matches—this is a passive, considerate way to be on my radar.
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Join the Newsletter
A gentle, thoughtful note from me about love, patterns, dating, and staying human in a noisy world.
Stories, reflections, invitations to IRL events, and seasonal offerings—shared with care.
A good place to get a feel for my voice and stay connected.
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Dating Differently Consultation
A focused one-on-one date coaching session to clarify your relationship goals, identify repeating patterns, and orient you toward a more aligned way of dating.
You’ll leave with clearer self-trust, practical insight, and next steps that support showing up with better energy—and more openness to real connection.
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Philip Mendola
For as long as I have known her, Rachel has been a connector in every sense of the word. Her sense for feeling a person—their heart, their energy, their unique qualities—is like no one else’s I have met. With both tact and enthusiasm, she is able to see people, relationships, and potential connection with a keen eye. My own shyness has benefited from Rachel’s big heart and can-do spirit, the exact kind of energy that keeps the world going. My confidence in her is rooted in a long personal history where I have seen her whip people, parties, and plans together in just the place where the potential was ripe. I’m deeply grateful to Rachel for the opportunities she’s given to me, and I’m hopeful that others will feel the exact same blessing of her effort, eye, and energy.
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Sarah Storer
I'm still totally 100% great if a partner never happens for me but I haven't been even remotely hopeful or even curious about dating for a long time and I am now and that is kind of lovely.
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Nate Romero
In just one hour, Rachel connected with me in a way I didn’t know was possible. As a young introverted man with limited dating experience, she helped me see the value of support, confidence, and even the power of affirmations. I don’t often seek help, but I don’t recall a moment in my life where I felt so moved by someone I barely knew.