You’ve probably got some questions…. let me start by answering these.
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Matchmaking is a thoughtful, human-centered approach to dating.
It’s a bit like having a trainer at the gym: you still have to show up, but you’re supported in staying aligned, expanding your possibilities, and making real progress.A good matchmaker takes time to truly learn who you are—your values, patterns, and vision for a good life—then makes intentional introductions rooted in compatibility and care. Along the way, we offer thoughtful date coaching for both clients and their matches, helping everyone show up with more clarity and presence.
Sometimes the takeaway from a date is deeper self-understanding. Other times, it’s finding your person. In our book, both are wins.
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I approach matchmaking like a relationship.
I work with kind-hearted humans who believe love should feel warm, ethical, and alive—not optimized, rushed, or performative.
When we work together, I encourage curiosity, help you listen to your inner compass, and share best practices I’ve learned through years of studying dating and relationships. I’m not a distant service provider—I’m a real person in your life who genuinely cares about how your love story unfolds.
That often means meeting clients in real life: co-hosting gatherings, inviting you into community, and creating opportunities where connection happens naturally. We don’t just talk about who you want to meet; we pay attention to how you move through the world, how you relate, and what patterns show up when you’re being yourself.
This work is relational, intuition-led, and deeply human. I care as much about how you love—and how you treat people along the way—as I do about whether a match “works.” Watching clients soften, gain clarity, and trust themselves again matters as much as any introduction I make.
We also debrief dates together, refining what you want and how you want to show up as the process unfolds.
If you’re looking for a matchmaker who feels more like a discerning friend, guide, and co-conspirator in your love life than a transactional service—this is that.
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No. And no ethical matchmaker can.
What I can promise is devotion to the process—honest reflection, thoughtful guidance, and inclusion in a long-term ecosystem of connection designed to support real partnership, not quick wins.
For many people, that alone changes everything. My clients tend to move through their life with greater clarity, self-trust, and emotional maturity—and most do find lasting love along the way.
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Being in the Rolodex means you’re on my radar.
It’s a curated pool of people who’ve proactively shared who they are, what they’re looking for, and how they move through relationships. When someone commits to private matchmaking or superconnector-level support, this is the first place I look for aligned introductions.
Sometimes the match is already here. Other times, I recruit more broadly or collaborate with trusted matchmakers beyond my immediate network.
There’s no cost and no guarantee. The Rolodex isn’t a waiting list or a promise—it’s the foundation of the ecosystem and how I stay thoughtfully oriented to the people in my wider orbit.
And occasionally, being in the Rolodex comes with a little magic: invitations to private, invite-only gatherings where connection happens naturally. The future is bright—and you’re in my orbit of intentional daters.
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Self-aware people who value kindness, presence, and growth—especially those who want depth over speed and responsibility over performance.
Interestingly, many of my happiest clients so far have been men with ADHD—curious, big-hearted humans who thrive with support that honors how their minds and nervous systems actually work.
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People reveal themselves over time.
I prioritize real conversation—often through thoughtful video chats—to get a genuine sense of alignment, values, and relational readiness before making introductions. From there, lived connection is what matters most.
My role is to support pacing, curiosity, and grounded discernment—so you remain the authority on what’s right for you.
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No — while Columbus is where much of my in-person community lives, my work isn’t limited to one city.
I’m connected with matchmakers globally and take calls every week with my collective to review profiles and look for aligned matches in other places. Some clients live elsewhere, travel in for dates or gatherings, or are open to long-distance with the right person.
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Your information is treated with care and discretion.
Profiles are never public. Details are only shared when there’s clear, mutual alignment with an active client or a trusted matchmaker partner—and even then, identifying information is limited until both sides express interest.
You’re always in control. If you ever want to update or delete your profile, just ask. Your agency comes first.
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Because this work is bespoke, there isn’t a single price. The investment depends on the scope of the search, geographic reach, and the level of hands-on support required. Some people are best served through a focused, shorter engagement; others benefit from a more expansive, ongoing container.
I’m also developing community-based and out-of-the-box models for people who want intentional connection and access to my ecosystem without a full private search.
The best next step is a conversation. We’ll get to know each other, explore what you’re looking for, and see if there’s mutual alignment. From there, I can recommend an approach and share a clear proposal designed around your goals and resources.
Schedule a consult if you’d like to explore what working together could look like.
If you have other questions, email me hello@in-good-co.com